1. Show her affection
Girls want guys to show them affection because it tells her that you care about her, and that you’re willing to show that love in a public way. It doesn’t always have to be public (PDA), but get used to the idea, because she wants other people to see how much you love her, so don’t be afraid to kiss her or hold her hand in public.
Tell her she’s beautiful and always make eye contact. Eye contact shows you mean what you say. When you look away, it will make her question your authenticity, so make eye contact at all times. You have to show her that you mean what you said. If you’re really sincere when you tell her how beautiful she is to you, you’re going to go a long way.
Also, tell her that she drives you crazy, and that she’s the prettiest girl you’ve ever laid eyes on. Tell her that you’ve never met anyone like her.
Compliment her on her looks, but also on her accomplishments, talents and abilities. If she’s a great poker player, tell her she’s smart. If she’s a good listener, tell her she’s great with other people.
2. Tell her you love her
Make sure you mean it. If you’re not ready to go there yet, that’s fine. But, be sure to switch that “I love you” for a really good “You know how special you are to me?” or a “I like you so much; I’m a really lucky guy.”
Simple is best. Stick with “I love you,” or “You make me so happy,” or “I’m really lucky to have you.” Don’t be so poetic that you go overboard.
These statements make her feel good, and they make her self-confidence soar. Remember, when her self-confidence is high, you benefit. Be steady with your signs of love or affection, enough so that she doesn’t forget how much you mean to her, but not so much that the power of the words gets watered down.
3. Touch her regularly and on the spur of the moment
Even the slightest touch can make a woman feel special. Make sure it’s a respectful and gentle touch, and not one that’s overly sexual or suggestive.
Hold her hand, give her a hug, rub her back, or gently touch her face. These gestures will all make her feel protected and loved!
There’s a time and a place for foreplay, but you’re not doing yourself any favors if you go there when she’s not ready. Make sure she’s totally comfortable before you start exploring your sexual relationship. Sex does not define a relationship. If you both agree to hold off, show her you adore her by pleasing her in other ways ie; deep passionate kisses on her mouth or small pecks all over her body. Women love knowing that their man adores their body and all of it.
4. Put her first, yourself second. Put her needs in front of yours
This does not meant that you are weak. It just means that, most of the time, you’re willing to bend for her, even if it was not something you wanted to do.
If you believe she is “Ms. Right,” then make her your number one priority! They say that love is selfless; you’re going to have to prove it to her.
If you’re with your friends, never ignore her and start talking with your friends or walk off with them as if she’s not there. How would you feel if she did this to you? Invisible, right? Keep close to her or glance at her every so often just to let her know you know she’s still there and offer a genuine smile.
Listen to her. One of the biggest complaints women have about men is that they don’t listen. Even if you’re not particularly interested in what she’s saying, listen, then acknowledge that you were listening. Let her know that you are the one that she can talk to about anything.
Every woman loves a bit of alone-time with her partner. Book a whole day for the two of you to be alone. Watch a movie, massage her back, snuggle and be intimate. Put other thoughts out of your head and focus completely on her. You’ll notice more of a connection when you do this, and that’s what you want. Try to schedule a bit of alone-time with her at least every month or so.