So, you are tired of life because its not friendly. The odds of life never favour you. You were born disabled, your mates that you started life together are all made and you are still struggling but every effort you make is to no avail. Nothing good has happened to you since you were born. you wonder “If only you were born in a better country or rich family.” you made a huge mistake and it has put you in the dark. Nobody wants to associate with you anymore. All your life you have been abused and told you are a nobody and it has become your life style because you have grown to believe it. You took a big loan for a business break through and the business failed so you are in a debt you can never pay. Â You were involved in an accident that changed your life and disfigured your physique you are so much in love with. You invested all your life savings in a business that failed. You give your all to a relationship you envisioned would end in a marriage but it did not because your unfaithful partner leave you for someone else. You were abandoned by people you sacrificed your all for when things weren’t okay with them, now that you need their help. You are struggling with a terminal illness that its cure is yet to be discovered. You have just been raped or sexually abused by someone you look up to, a stranger, or a friend you so much trust. You are being blackmailed and its killing you softly because you are afraid of the consequences of Â your secret coming out to the public, and death seem to be the only way to end it.
I have got good news for you. IT IS THE SOLUTION THAT HAS BEEN THERE ALL THESE WHILE YOU HAVE BEEN CONTEMPLATING SUICIDE, BUT YOU DID NOT SEE IT.
There are few things you don’t know about your situation;
1) YOUR SITUATION IS A SOLUTION TO SOMEONES PROBLEM
The world is full of problems that needs to be solved. People are looking for people to help them solve their problems and tell them how to go about it. The richest people in the world we all admire and love to be like Â are all problem solvers. The best way to get paid is to solve problems. Look around you, what problem can you solve with your current situation? Don’t have any ideas yet? I will tell you one, go ahead and start telling people how not to make the mistake you made in life. Be a voice to the less privileged people. Tell people what they can do to avoid terminal diseases. Be a voice to the once beautiful and adored but now physically challenged people. Let people know they van still make something meaningful of their life despite their up bringing. No one believed in you, go ahead make people believe in themselves. Your spouse left you, let him or her know you are better off without them and use your experience to help others prevent such mistake you made. You will fins fulfillment. you were abused by someone you looked up to or a friend you so much trust, go on with your life and be a voice of hope to those in the same situation . whatever you went through and made you consider suicide, turn it around by using it to help others not to go your way. The world movers and shakers are people who used their flaws to help others. Do a research you will see it.
I will give you one instance and example I always use myself. NICK VUJICIC. He was born without arms and legs that his parents almost gave up on him until they thought about the good he could do the world by becoming a voice to many that see no meaning in life. Today, this man that was born without arms and legs is a world renowned evangelist and public speaker that speak in world conferences of respected renowned public speakers. He can do all what you and I that have hands and legs can do. He is happily married with two kids and still being a voice to those that have given up on themselves. what about you?
“When I was 8 years old, I became depressed. I kept asking why I was born this way (with our arms and legs). I also worried about my future. At the age of 10, I tried to commit suicide because I felt like giving up. But when I imagined my loving parents crying at my grave, I decided to stay.
( the Australian born evangelist, born, without arms and legs)
2) YOU MATTER TO SOMEONE
Someone put up a suicide note on his social media wall to know people that truly cared for him, guess what, he got messages from people that hardly like or comment on his posts telling him how much he mean to them and how much impact he has on their lives. The moral here, humans hardly gives complements and I don’t know why. You will be a huge influence on their lives but they won’t tell you for except something bad is about happening to you that involves their losing Â you in their lives. One very big problem why the one seem to be experiencing a very high rate of suicide. A lot of lives would have been saved if many of them have been told how much they mean to us their friends and loved ones. If you have the opportunity tell people how much they mean to you and the world at large. it will help preserve lives and put the thought of suicide at bay. Now that you have known that you mean something to someone and they won’t tell you, please don’t take your life. If no one tell you, I will tell you, you mean a lot to me as the world at large. There is greatness in you. That person close to you is waiting for it to be unleashed.
3) YOUR SITUATION IS NOT THE WORST IN THE WORLD
Someone once bought a rope and made his way to a forest to commit suicide. On his way into the forest, he saw a banana tree with fruits half spoilt and half good. He plucked a bunch and chose a tree that is perfect for his purpose. Before going ahead with his purpose, he settled for a meal of the half spoilt and half good bunch of banana, eating only the good part and dropping the bad part under the tree before climbing up to the tree to tie the rope he intended using for his purpose. As he was tying the rope to the tree, a man from no where came to the tree, seeing the spoilt banana , he thanked his creator for the food he found in the spoilt banana, settled under the tree and finished them up, then walked away. The man with the intent of committing suicide, came down from the tree and begged his creator for mercy.
This might seem just a story, it goes a long way to show you why you must not give in to suicide. No matter what you are going through, you can still make a difference in the world. Start Â new life of positive impact today to someone, no matter how small it is, it will go a long way to save you the thought of suicide. You are better than someone out there . Believe it or not, someones major prayer point is your life now. Value your life, value yourself. You are unique ,beautiful, useful, and Â powerful. Don’t let no one Tell you something else. Not even that evil voice inside.
4) THERE ARE BETTER DAYS AHEAD
This is not just a motivational statement. It’s something I want you to think about. One of my favorite quotations is this one, “NO ONE KNOWS TOMORROW.”
Anything can happen for your good in the next minute, never give up on yourself no matter what you are going through. Some years ago, malaria and other sibkness that we treat today with medications that are easily accessible were deadly diseases. Same thing with HIV/AIDS. Researches are Â ongoing to treat Cancers and other terminal diseases. The break through for your case is nearer than you think. It can come in any minute. There is great power in the will to survive. Tap into it today. You are great, beloved. Stay alive for us.
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