Gratitude is just the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness. Power of gratitude in your marriage and relationship can work wonders. It might be small but its mighty. Let’s look at some point on what gratitude can create and do in your marriage/relationship
“When you practice gratefulness, there is a sense of respect towards others.”
The Dalai Lama
Gratitude pave way for fresh impact:
When you are thankful for what your spouse has done for you, surely you are knocking the door for a new gifts or kindness. Gratitude will open your spouse mind to you, which gives you the opportunity to enter his/her heart, at this moment when your spouse heart and mind is opened there is nothing you will ask him/her that they won’t do except it’s not in their power to do it. Even if it’s not in their power, there is a way your gratitude will open his heart, triggers their inner energy to do whatever it takes to make your wish come true.
“Gratitude opens the door to… the power, the wisdom, the creativity of the universe. you open the door through gratitude.”
Gratitude is a key to your supernatural victory :
Supernatural! Can we all remember what happened to the wall of Jericho in the bible, the biggest, tallest, strongest, thickest wall in the bible fell down. To my surprise, no single tools, bulldozer or caterpillar were used to fall it down. It’s just a heart of gratitude, singing praises and thanking God that destroy this huge wall of Jericho. Can you see what gratitude and a thankful heart can do?
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No matter how high, thick or big your spouse might have built up against you, a thankful heart will break it down which gives you entrance into their life.
Also when you are fighting spiritual battle in your marriage and life, don’t use all the time to pray for fire, sometimes you need to give thanks to your maker, if you can dedicate your time, yourself to thank your God to the extent his head swells, then you are rest assured he has already finished your battle for you. Yes that’s what gratitude can do for you. A thankful heart of 2hours can put an end to the problems of 20years
Multiplication answers to gratitude :
If you have been in a ceremony where musicians shower praises on people or maybe it has happened to you yourself then you will understand this part perfectly. You are in a party in which you have planned not to spend more than some particular amount no matter what happens. But because the musician of the day was so good and his instrumentalist too were complementing his good work that when he started praising you, you spent more than what you budgeted on him to the extent you even spent your food money with it.
Gratitude is a very powerful word, most people don’t know what the power of gratitude can do so they take it for granted. Let’s use the ladies, you told your husband you need some amount of money, let’s say 100$ but he gave you 80$, if you show sincere gratitude he will increase the money for you because the 80$ he gave you doesn’t mean he has no money again but just that he has other things he needs money for but your sincere gratitude can make him neglect that thing and make him give you all the money.
In the case above, I know some women might flare up, they will start using abusive words on him, they will insult him by saying, is this what your mates are giving their wife? I asked for 100$ you gave me 80$, what will I do with it? Ladies learn to communicate, learn how to show gratitude. Some ladies wonder how their female friends get to collect things from their husband. It’s because they know the rules of the power of gratitude.
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“The real gift of gratitude is that the more grateful you are, the more present you become.”
It establishes you in the heart of your partner :
Gratitude will help you build a solid foundation in the heart of your spouse that even when you are not with them, they smile when they remember the way you eulogized them. This establishes you in their heart which will make them want to do more for you just because they want to hear you praise them.
It will also create the room for you to walk in freely to them to ask them anything you need, to collect the things you need without them delaying just because you have paid the price of gratitude
Makes you have sustainable fruitfulness: you won’t lose value
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“Give thanks for a little and you will find a lot.”
“Inhale love and exhale gratitude.”